
Sade, the first daughter of the Alaafin of Oyo, Oba Lamidi Adeyemi tells us about her life, her family and her father.
Read the Punch Newspapers excerpts below:
What was the experience of growing up in the palace?
Growing up in the palace was a combination of cultural and moral discipline, wrapped in extreme wealth. My father was a soldier, so he was firm and strict in the training of his children. He is from a wealthy family but he did not spoil us.
Every morning, we listened to the palace elders who told us the history of the Yoruba and its ancestors like Ifa, Sango, Ogun, Obatala and so on. We were awoken by the sound of drums and cultural rhymes. We were dressed in traditional attire with expensive beads lining our plaited hair. As the first daughter of the king, I always led the procession when it was time to present gifts to visitors in the palace. You cannot grow up in such an environment without being enshrined in Yoruba tradition.
How did Alaafin train his children?
My father is the head of the Oyo Kingdom and the administration of the empire takes place in the palace. There is nothing that goes on in the palace that does not get his approval.In those days, we enjoyed the presence of the Alaafin even though he was very busy. He is a wonderful father who played his roles in the development of his children. He still does it today. He created time to see us and he was always telling us to ensure that we strive to be successful in life irrespective of our wealthy background.
Was there a clash between western and traditional education in the palace?

